It’s Okay to Take a Break from Writing…

Before you spontaneously combust.

November 1, 2022

Dear Writers,

Thank you for signing up for Writing with Hart: News and Opportunities for Writers. I’m so glad you’re here!

Right away, a Big Confession: I didn’t send an October newsletter.

Life got really messy at the end of September. I’m talking emotional trauma, PTSD, depression, anxiety, insomnia . . . and then I got locked in a tiny dairy bathroom for 45 minutes while on a travel assignment. (Look for that story in print very soon.)

My point in explaining all this is that sometimes you just have to give yourself a break. Really.

I’ve been called the queen of the hustle, and it’s true—my storytelling brain works overtime, all the time, and always has. But once in a while, the hustle gets exhausting. I believe it’s okay to say NO, to protect your mental and physical health. I had to say NO to the October newsletter, or seriously, people, I was going to spontaneously combust.

(For the finest example of spontaneous combustion I’ve ever seen on screen, please watch the Hart/Smith family favorite Bleak House this holiday season.)

All right. Now that I’ve got that out of the way, I’m delighted to announce my new online course, “How to Write and Publish Short Personal Essays.” Sign up for the eight-series video course and watch at your leisure, or opt for the supported version which includes editing and consulting sessions with moi. My past students have been published in HuffPost, High Country News, Sierra, Brevity, The Writer, and numerous other publications. I’d love to help you tell your story to the world!

What I’m Publishing

Where I’m Teaching & Reading

November 8th:“Write Personal Essays to Build Your Audience and Earn a Paycheck”—Online and In-Person, with Willamette Writers Eugene Chapter

November 20th: “The Nature of Gratitude” with writers Eric Alan and Tom Titus, poet Jorah LaFleur, and musicians Halie Loren, Daniel Gallo, and Beth Wood.

A Few Cool Writing Resources

  • Love popular history? You’ll want to subscribe to writer Jack El-Hai’s free monthly newsletter, Damn History. It’s absolutely fascinating.
  • It’s National Novel Writing Month! I wrote about this fun and inspiring event in “Seven Ways to Build a Writing Habit” for The Writer Magazine. The organization behind NaNoWriMo is lovely; they offer so much support for novel writers, and it’s free!
  • This short essay “How to Get a Free Writing Retreat (or almost anything)” piqued my interest. I love that the writer mentions Trusted Housesitters, which I’ve used and loved.

Conferences, Workshops, and Calls for Submissions

  • Resonance Magazine is looking for pieces that explore the emotional relationship to music. Click the link for samples.
  • Remember to check NewPages.com weekly for new publishing opportunities; today, I see editorial calls for poetry, fiction, nonfiction, and writing by teens!
  • There are several excellent writers’ conferences coming up next year. Feeling too introverted to attend? You might want to read my article “An Introvert’s Guide to Writing Conferences.” I’ve trained myself to extrovert with the best of them. Heck, I brought juggling balls to the Willamette Writers Conference earlier this year, and my colleague Eric M. Witchey gave me pro juggling tips on the hotel patio!

Another pro-tip: remember always to email or call and ask about discounts for any conference you attend; often, students get a discount, and often, others can volunteer for a lower rate, as well.

  • I’ve taught several times at the San Francisco Writers’ Conference, and I’m always impressed with the quality of education and the camaraderie between staff, presenters, and attendees.

But remember, if you’re feeling overwhelmed, you can say NO to all of the above and retreat to take care of yourself. Really.

That’s all for now! Feel free to share this newsletter these opportunities with everyone you know! And email me if something wonderful comes across your inbox. I’ll share it in the December newsletter.

Much gratitude,

Melissa

P.S. This is my exquisite new book cover, illustrated by Italian artist Elena Bia.

Published by Melissa Hart

​I'm an Oregon-based author, journalist, public speaker, and instructor for the MFA in Creative Writing program at Southern New Hampshire University. My essays and articles have appeared in The New York Times, The Washington Post, CNN, The Boston Globe, The Chicago Tribune, The Los Angeles Times, Real Simple, Orion, High Country News, The Rumpus, Brevity, Woman's Day, The Advocate, Parents, The Chronicle of Higher Education, Hemispheres, and numerous other publications. I'm the author of Daisy Woodworm Changes the World (Jolly Fish, 2022), The Media Adventurer's Handbook: Decoding Persuasion in Everyday News, Ads, and More (World Citizen Comics, 2023), Better with Books: 500 Diverse Books to Ignite Empathy and Encourage Self-Acceptance in Tweens and Teens(Sasquatch, 2019), the award-winning middle-grade novel Avenging the Owl(Sky Pony, 2016), the memoir Wild Within: How Rescuing Owls Inspired a Family (Lyons, 2007), and the memoir Gringa: A Contradictory Girlhood (Seal, 2005). I'm a contributing editor at The Writer Magazine, and I speak frequently at K-12 schools, writing conferences, libraries, universities, and bookstores. I grew up near Los Angeles with my younger brother, who has Down syndrome. I live in Eugene with my husband and teen daughter, where I love to run and hike long-distance, cross country ski, kayak, cycle, cook, and roam the Pacific Northwest as an amateur naturalist.

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